If ALL of your NOe peaks are indeed very weak at 100 ms then it is safe to use longer mixing times. times (provided that the low intensity is NOT due to lack of adequate sample; I expect sample conc. is > 1 mM).
Instead of increasing the mixing time to 300 ms you may increase the sensitivity of the experiment by increasing the sample concentration by a factor of 3 or use a more sensitive probe, e.g. a cryogenic probe. These two alternatives would allow you to obtain substantial increases in sensitivity.
It would be safer to use acquire a series of NOESY spectra with different mixing times and use a relaxation matrix analysis. (for your case 50ms?, 100ms, 150ms, 200ms and 300ms)
It would be better to use ROESY/CAMELSPIN spectra as the effects of spin-diffusion are less in these spectra. See work of Bothnerby ..; Bax and Davis.